Ratnakar Upadhayay
Kahte hai pyaar ek aisi cheez hai jo ache ache ko seedha kar deti hai. Kaeyo ki zindagi savaar deti hai to kaeyo ki bigad. But aise me jinki zindagi savarti hai vo bhi kabhi kabhi bigade se mehsoos karte hai. Nahi samjhe to chaliye samjhaate hai. Life me ek aisa person hona bahut jaruri hai jo aapke lie moral support, pyaar aur baaki saari cheezo ko lie maujood rahe. Aise person ke sath ham partner kahte hai. Pyaar starting me to kaafi uchalta kudta hai do logo ke beech but at last ek aisa point aata hai. Jab aap apni love life ya relationshp me boriyat paate hai. Ab aise me agar us boriyat ka ilaaz aap nahi karte hai then may be ho sakta hai jo rista aap nibha rahe ho vo toot jae. Yu kahe agar love life ya relationships me boriyat aajae then steps na lene se vo relationship ya love life khatm ho sakti hai.
But aisa hota kyu hai jab starting me itna pyaar tha dheere dheere khatm sa ho jata hai. But pyaar khatm nhi hota bus vo boriyat hoti hai jisko ham pyaar khatm hona samjh lete hai. Aaj kal ki bhag daud bdi zindagi me aisa hona kaafi normal baat hai but is normal baat ke consequences kaafi kharab hote hai. Jab pyaar start hota hai then sab kuch kaafi acha lagta hai aur hm kaafi fresh fresh mahsoos krte hai but ek time aisa bhi aajta hai jab ham bore sa feel krte hai and apne partner me boring person dekhne lagte hai. Ab aise me kya krna hai ham aage aapko btate hai.
Conversation Se Hi Baat Banegi
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Research me pata chala hai maximum log agar kisi problem se pareshan hote hai then vo uska zikra apne partner se nahi karte hai. And iska result hi hai unki life me boriyat enter kar jaati hai. Ab aise me hota ye hai ki dheere dheere ham baat karna band kar dete hai. Ab aise me agar partner ke sath kuch issues ya galatfaimi hojae then sort out krna bhi bhul jaate hai. Ya yu kahe sort out jaan bhuj kar sort out nhi kar paate. But ek achi relationship ka main key hai conversation agar aap baat hi nhi kroge to agle ko samjhoge kaise. Samjhane ke lie baat karni jaruri hoti hai. Jaise starting me khub baat karte the vaise hi baat karne ki kosis kre. Har ek choti badi baat ko share kre jitna share krenge utni mitha riste me bani raehgi and aapke life me boriyat mit jaegi.
Importance De Ek Doosre Ko
Special feel karna kise nhi pasand. Starting ke days me jab aap kisi relationship me badhte ho then aap apne partner ko har pal special feel karvate ho. But jaise jaise time bitata chala jata hai vo kahi goom sa ho jata hai. Ab aise me ye kahna galat nhi hoga ek reason ye bhi hota hai aapki relationship me boriyat ka. So boriyat ko agar mitana hai then phir se start hojaeye ek doosre ko special feel karvane me. Aisa karne se vo spark jo hai dobara se aajaega and aap khud acha mehsoos krenge. Kyuki aap jab aisa karte ho then agle ko pata chalta hai ki uski importance kitni hai aapke life me nad vo jitna bhi effort deta aaya hai ab tk relationship me uska double dena start kar deta hai.
Feel The Nostalgia
Pata hai yaadien ek aisi cheez hoti hai jo har kisi ke chehre par ek choti si smile la deti hai untill unless vo yaadien buri na ho. But when it comes to relationship to yaadien to kaafi achi hi hongi. Jab aap un yaadon ko feel karenge mehsoos karenge to aap apne relationship gazab sa spark mehsoos karenge. To ye bhi ek best tareeka ho sakta hai apni relationship me se boriyat ko mitaane ka. Har ek pal ko yaad karte rahiye jaise jab aap pehli baar mile the to kya hua tha then jab aap kahi ghumne gae then kya hua vaigarah. Jaha tak photos aur videos to hongi hi aapki as in itne bhi poorane jaamane ke nhi honge aap ki photos aur videos na ho aapke intial relationshp time ki. So aise me un photos aur videos ko dekhna sath me aaoko ek gazab ki feeling de sakta hai.
Bahar Nikle Aur Ghumne Jae
Ye vala tareeka to raambaan hai. Ghumna shayad hi kisi ko pasand na ho. har koe chahta hai thoda sa time mile aur kahi shanti me nikal jae. To aisa hm apne relationship me spark laane ke lie kyu nhi kar sakte. Yaad karieye un places ko jaha aap starting days me apne partneer ke sath jaya karte the vha jaeye. Else aur bhi kae nae jagah hongi jaha aap jana pasand kar sakte hai. Pyshoclogist bhi kahte hai life me break lene se inshan mentally healthy rahte hai. Ten aise me ghumne se aapko double fayada mil jata hai. Like aapko aur apke brain ko break aur iske saath hi aapki relationship me boriyat ko break.
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